Random things I noticed which I dont have anywhere close to the experience to tell the significance/relevance of.Both charts: saturn/venus midpoint is on something else. VR: 2.75deg off of Midheaven. SR: 2deg55sec ahead of Juno, 3d house.
VR: Sun is on DC, Pluto is on AC, and Sun/Pluto is 1deg 45s behind my natal AC.
VR: 8th house cusp is 2deg from my natal Sun and Venus/Moon & Mars/Moon are conjunct that cusp by 1 and 1.5 degrees.
SR: Moon/Saturn is conjunct my natal Saturn by half a degree.
...while thinking about this I spontaneously thought that maybe I could guess at M's birthday and put a cold shower on this whole sneaky feeling.
I did, and I stopped looking at her chart bc it looks way too easy to feed my optimism:
She is has Sun in scorpio less than 1 degree from sextile my sun, and conjunct within 3deg my Jupiter (in my 7th).
Her venus (also my 7th) is 2 degrees from exactly sextile my sun, and both 5deg from conjunct my jupiter and 7 deg conjunct my mars in my 7th.
Her mars is also 7deg from conjunct my venus in my 5th.
Her moon is trine my moon (depending on birth time which I'm not going to try to find) by 2 to 8 degrees, and conjunct my Saturn/Pluto/DC. Conjunct her Mercury also in that same stellium.
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Definitely not thinking about this anymore so that whatever happens happens spontaneously.